alot of times ive had dreams where im arguing with my father and wanting to leave my home in my dreams a recent one i actually did it was kind of like right ive had enough im leaving now arguement with him in my dream. Why do i keep dreaming this??
also last nights dream was my dad was trying to buy me some gold watch in a jewellery shop but i kept refusing to accept it as i didnt want it. There was one gold watch which he showed me and said "there, thats nice" it was kind of like an old watch like from the 60's or something. Like you know it wasnt really a watch cos it wasnt one that u can place around your wrist it was like erm one that has kind of like a chain. lets just say a miniature carrying clock
just have a look at this: it was something like this but for men
http://www.airwatches.com/thumbs/colibri_colibri_nurse_s_watch_pin_pwl-95557-y.jpg
help please!|||You are at a stage in your life where you are trying to assert your independence. The arguing with your father has more to do with becoming your own person (cutting the umbilical cord) than anything else. Your father wants to give you something precious - the benefit of his experience (the gold watch), but you see his advice and experience as kind of old-fashioned and you don't want to take it. You want to experience life on your own terms, in today's world, with more modern values. The watch also has to do with timing: it is time for you to move from childhood to adulthood. Just don't cut your dad off. He only wants the best for you and sometimes it's just hard for parents to let go and let their adult children learn things on their own. Those lessons we learn on our own stick better than those that someone tells us about.|||I guess from your words that you are still living at home with your parents/dad. I'd say you have a strong desire to live your own life, but, whether he is vocal or not, your dad influences you too much for your own comfort. The watch represents his offering you the comfort of staying home, (nice gift, showing he can take care of you), but the watch also represents time. Both the difference between generations attitudes, and the time for you to leave the nest.
The argument doesn't mean you don't love him, or are arguing in reality, only that you don't want to stay under his control any longer. Time to make your own life.|||well, it could mean that you are really struggling inside about the concept of moving out and being on your own. It is kind of a scary concept for you to move out and be on your own. That clock could symbolize time... the time you have left to stay.
another meaning it might have is that you are really having a hard time with a particular problem and you are trying to restle it and bring it down in your mind.
dreams are usually your subconscious thoughts and feelings surfacing as symbols in a visual way. Its your body's way of working through problems and stuff... kind of like a built-in counselor. maybe you should try to look at the individual things, small and big in your dream and look at the hidden meaning. look hard enough, and i promise it will be found.
Hope this helps!|||You are at war with your father in your walking life .but you are a very angry young man and you need some professional help a thing that I am sure you will not do ; because you are not ready to get to the bottom of this pail who is full of resentment but my advice is this one move from your fathers place
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